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Sara Fischer's avatar

You had me at "I've been living every day, not writing or posting about living"! I have a substack and every time I go on vacation I have great plans to start using it, when the reality is that it's just not part of my writing life at the moment. It's so important to just get rid of the "shoulds" and "supposed tos" and be present. Thank you.

Lea Page's avatar

Choice between going to the river with your kids and the computer? Seems clear to me. I appreciate your thoughts so much, Laura. And part of that is because you DON'T post them all the time. I know you wait until you have something to say--that's why I always read it.

I have a book coming out --not for 2 years--and I'm thinking about how to proceed. I'm going to do all the things, but I'm not going to change anything on social media. I post my sky photos and my dog photos and an occasional summary of a particularly appalling call with my political representatives. And I am never going to open a Substack. Long ago, when my first book came out, I started a blog because that was THE THING TO DO. It was moderately successful, and still, I hated it. Too much noise. I fear we are diminishing ourselves by talking all the time. Or, rather, I know that I diminish MYSELF when I spend too much time "speaking" and not enough time being quiet, paying attention. IRL, I tend to seek out the people on the periphery, the places that are overlooked. They are more interesting to me--and truly, for promoting a book, I believe that holds true as well.

My book is an extension of myself, just as yours is of you. You stand in your integrity, Laura. You have at least one reader who is watching and taking notes.

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