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Oh gosh! I want a pair of skates like those. What fun skating around in the loft of an old barn. As for the other... the dreadful turn of events re: Roe v Wade and what that means and what is yet to come, we must speak out and speak up. Thank you for sharing your experience of what can happen when we do. I'm telling everyone about "Singing Lessons..." and what a delight of a read it is.

PS: do you listen to music when you skate?

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I started your book today! it's a terrific story! Appreciate your voice and perspective both as a writer and small press publisher.

Also completely understand why you would delete the post. Self preservation is also a radical move.

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Jul 3, 2022Liked by Laura Stanfill

Oh, how horrible that trolls came out to harass you on a personal and heartfelt post. Totally understandable that you did what you felt was best for your peace of mind and for your daughters'. And here's to jelly, sparkly skate wheels.

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I love this post! I feel connected to you through your writing. I have chronic pain and an autoimmune condition myself. I wouldn't choose to camp, but more power to you for doing it! When I lived in pdx, the Oregon Country Fair was one of my favorite summertime events. Two chapters in my book, For Better And Worse, is based off a man who I met there! You are going to be a hit!

Also, shake off those haters. Isn't there a Taylor Swift song about this? ;)

(p.s. If you're interested in my book which all takes place in Oregon, I'd be happy to send you a signed copy or you can find it here. https://www.amazon.com/Better-Worse-Short-Stories-Tantalizing/dp/1519373821)

Good luck at the fair! I wish these were different times where I could safely travel and be there.

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Jul 3, 2022Liked by Laura Stanfill

Love the pix! So great to see after so much bad news in our world..and the frenzy of haters ..dismissed! They haven’t earned the space. I also really like your attitude re book sales and measuring success by your own metrics. We shall overcome!

Best

Sonya z

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Thanks, Laura, once again for another great newsletter. Like Kristin, I shared my story on The Big Smoke and had little response. Also pushback from a family member; I was being too honest and revealing. A reminder of how deeply shame infects our felt sense of our bodies. Your newsletter was like salve on my vulnerable heart. Thanks so much.

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Jul 3, 2022Liked by Laura Stanfill

Great newsletter! If you like rollerskating, you should check out my children’s book TILLIE HEART AND SOUL. http://maryatkinson.net/tillie-heart-and-soul/

Mary

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Jul 3, 2022Liked by Laura Stanfill

I needed your words about self-silencing. I shared my story on #whateverthereason, but only to friends, and that felt like not going all in. I didn't want to invite the stream of trolls, though, and I have friends I know disagree with me but won't be uncivil about it. I love that you talked with your daughters about choice. So healthy.

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Every word of this is just beautiful.

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I love your newsletter; you write like we're having a conversation. As for "doing something" I will complete the 40 Get Out The Vote postcards (to Wisconsin this time) I've committed to, and I will think about your inspiring words.

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Yay! I’m going Friday to the Fair and I’ll try to come find you!

And yeah, I hear you about the trolls. The abortion debate gets way too heated and personal.

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So grateful for your efforts here. I bought and am waiting to dive into your novel. Enjoy the summer.

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Jul 3, 2022Liked by Laura Stanfill

Thanks for the shout out on The Sturgeon Heart — it’s a cracker of a book! So pleased you like it!

MBB

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